Tell me when…..

When’s the last time you’ve done something that made you happy? Whether it was purchasing something you desired, traveling a place you’ve always wanted, or chilling in the house all day doing nothing, because that’s what you wanted to do? If you haven’t done anything you wanted to do….why not? Often we don’t do things…

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Internal Conflict

I want to believe my mother and father will live forever, but of course that would be living in a dream. The love they’ve provided me, requires me to raise my guard and protect the better parts of me. How can I let them leave knowing I’m being devalued? Wait, I mean.. devaluing myself, by…

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Breaking Up With Toxicity

It’s crazy how many red flags 🚩 we ignore. It’s not because we are dumb, it’s really because we choose to ignore them… OK.. so maybe we are dumb, but most importantly we’re human. It’s like we WANT to see the good in people, even when they show us exactly who they are! This could…

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Heal·ing

I’ve found myself just having random breakdowns and even though I wanted to stop myself from crying, I knew I just had to let it out. I’ve cried in the car, in the bed, in the shower, mainly anywhere I had time to think which is why I try so hard to stay busy. But who can really keep busy that long? I knew there were things I needed to address that I couldn’t repress any longer.

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trau·ma

When we first meet someone we are instantly attracted to something physical and if not physical, it’s their personality. We tend to boast about their looks, their career, their body, their smile, and their lifestyle. Many of us take all of these things and imagine a life with them. Time goes on, we meet their…

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Just one of those days..

Some days I wake up and I’m just not feeling it. It’s to the point that just laying in bed and doing nothing feels perfect. Sometimes it’s so bad that I don’t want contact with anyone. My mom always told me to stop being so available, and that’s a lesson I have yet to learn.…

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An Open Letter to beau..

Thank You.. I appreciate you.. Although we haven’t been on this journey long, you’ve proven to be a noble companion. Sometimes I even consider you a champion. You’ve taken on a project that many have quit. Day 1, I told you the story of a heart impossible to fix. You ensured me you were ready…

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/biɡ/ /CHäp/- {Big Chop}

On, August 10th, 2018, I decided to do the big chop. The big chop symbolized so much more than just hair. When other people said that, I thought it was so cliche lmao. But honestly it was one of the best things I’ve ever done. We go through life afraid, and that’s not living at…

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Opinions – (əˈpɪnjən)

In the past couple of years I’ve learned to live my life like 4 year old Ebonee. This meant learning to stop caring about what other people thought about me and my decisions. When I cared about what other people thought, I realized I wasn’t making myself happy. I’m in control of my happiness at…

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